I often mention that we invest in health insurance more for the peace of mind it offers, hoping we’ll never actually need to use it, rather than just for financial security in case of emergencies.
About a month ago, our friend Tom experienced a traumatic event – a plane crash that resulted in a severe back injury and a temporary loss of sensation in his legs (as detailed in “A Lesson in Proportion”). Understandably, this incident deeply affected us as his friends, and we sought ways to support him through this challenging time. Leveraging our skills in happiness coaching, we focused on helping Tom envision a positive future and set daily and weekly goals. Gradually, he began to regain feeling in his legs, bolstering our optimism.
During our visits in the weeks that followed, Tom would share his “story of the day” with us. While some stories were uplifting, many were sad and distressing. We encouraged him to document his hospital journey for several reasons:
- Emotional Healing: Writing can be a therapeutic way to process and express the complex emotions stirred by such a traumatic event.
- Focus and Motivation: Keeping a journal could help Tom stay focused on his recovery journey.
- Supporting Others: His experiences could offer valuable insights and encouragement to others facing similar challenges.
Despite our suggestions, Tom was hesitant about the idea of writing. Three months have passed, and he still hasn’t felt ready to document his experiences in the hospital. This situation underscores the individual nature of coping and healing; everyone finds their own path to recovery.
Reflecting on a Friend’s Challenging Hospital Experience The Rigorous Routine of Medication Administration
This week, I found myself deeply affected by an incident involving my friend Tom, whose recent surgery and subsequent pain management I’ve been closely following. The intensity of his pain and the heavy medication regimen he’s been on compelled me to share his experience, especially since he’s been reluctant to write about it himself.
Tom’s surgery was complex and serious, and the pain he endured was almost unimaginable. To manage this, he was put on a regimen of strong painkillers and other medications, necessitating frequent visits from the nursing staff. Each day, about ten times, nurses would come to his bedside to administer medication, either adding something to his IV drip or giving him pills. This process was always accompanied by a strict protocol.
Each time, two nurses would arrive, one of them typically holding a higher rank, carrying Tom’s patient chart and the necessary medication. Before administering anything, they would go through a set of routine questions:
- “What is your name?” Tom would respond with his full name.
- “What is your date of birth?” Tom would provide his complete birth date.
- “Do you have any allergies?” To this, Tom consistently replied, “I’m allergic to Penicillin,” pointing to the red band around his wrist indicating his allergy.
Only after this verification would they give him his medication, with both nurses signing off on his chart afterward. This meticulous procedure, though repetitive, highlights the careful measures taken in healthcare settings to ensure patient safety and proper treatment.
A Cautionary Tale from a Hospital Stay Navigating Medical Procedures and Ensuring Patient Safety
During my visits to see Tom in the hospital, I often heard the nurses apologize for repeatedly asking the same questions about his identity and allergies. Tom, understanding the importance of these procedures, always reassured them, appreciating the safety these protocols provided.
However, one day, a concerning situation arose. Tom developed a fever, and the doctors, suspecting an infection at the site of his back wound, decided to rush him to surgery. Amidst the worry, Tom’s wife, while in the corridor, noticed a sign about blood clots. Tom had previously developed a clot in his legs, which had traveled to his lungs, and was being treated with blood thinners. She immediately questioned the doctors about the implications of these thinners on the surgery. Realizing their oversight, the doctors decided against immediate surgery, opting instead to administer antibiotics to control the infection.
The next day, Tom’s fever escalated, causing increasing concern among the nurses. Then, a new nurse, while going through the routine questions, noticed something alarming on Tom’s IV bag after he confirmed his allergy to Penicillin. Despite his allergy, he had been administered five doses of a Penicillin-based antibiotic, likely causing his fever.
The revelation sent shockwaves through the hospital ward. Medical staff and lab experts hurried to assess Tom’s condition, assuring him that he wasn’t allergic to Penicillin. Fortunately, two hours after switching his antibiotics, his fever subsided, and his condition began to improve.
Following this incident, the hospital staff went out of their way to appease Tom, perhaps fearing legal repercussions. This wasn’t the only instance of negligence we witnessed during his stay, even though this was a top facility for spinal injuries.
This experience taught us a valuable lesson: while health insurance can cover medical expenses, it doesn’t guarantee flawless medical care or the absence of medical errors. We often joke with Tom now, saying, “If the hospital doesn’t kill you, you’re definitely going to walk.”
So, stay healthy and safe. And when you pay your insurance premiums, hope fervently that you’ll never have to use them.


